When someone you love nears their final days, you want them to feel surrounded by love, comfort, and peace. Vigil planning and support help families create clear, caring plans for this sacred time.
What Is Vigil Planning?
Vigil planning means making a detailed plan for your loved one’s final days or hours. We help you organize 24-hour care with family and friends. Our job is to guide you in ensuring someone is always there while caring for everyone’s needs.
Planning the Room Environment
- Soft, calm lighting that feels peaceful
- Comfortable temperature for everyone
- Furniture arranged so caregivers can rest nearby
- Space for visitors to gather or have quiet moments
Scheduling Visitors
- Plan who your loved one wants nearby at different times
- Schedule breaks for family members when they need rest
- Coordinate between family and friends so no one feels overwhelmed
- Make special arrangements for children or other important visitors
Creating Comfort and Atmosphere
- Meaningful music, nature sounds, or calming silence
- Soothing scents like gentle essential oils
- Personal items like photos, blankets, or religious symbols
- Ways to make the space feel like home
What to Expect
- Signs that death is approaching, so you feel prepared instead of scared
- Steps to take when death happens
- Who to call and when
- How to care for yourself during this difficult time
When You Need Extra Help: Vigil Sitting
Sometimes families need more support during vigil time. Vigil sitting means we come to stay with your loved one during their final transition, giving you time to rest, eat, or gather strength.
What We Provide During Vigil Sitting
- Quiet companionship so your loved one is never alone
- Basic comfort care, like moistening lips or adjusting position
- Peaceful presence during the most challenging moments
- Medical experience when you want someone trained nearby
When Vigil Sitting Helps
- When family caregivers are exhausted from around-the-clock care
- When you need time for meals, rest, or connecting with other family members
- When you want someone with medical knowledge present
- When you need peace of mind knowing someone caring is always there
We respect your family’s wishes and traditions while providing the support you need.
Working Together for Peace and Dignity
Both vigil planning and vigil sitting support your whole family during this difficult time. We work with your hospice team, doctors, and other caregivers so everyone understands the plan and works together smoothly.
Our goal is simple: help you create the kind of final days you want for your loved one—filled with love, comfort, and peace.
The Sacred Nature of This Time
The final days of life are deeply meaningful and deserve careful attention. Vigil planning helps ensure this time becomes a source of healing and connection rather than confusion and stress.
When families feel prepared and supported, they can:
- Focus on love and connection instead of worrying about logistics
- Create meaningful memories during precious final moments
- Feel confident they’re honoring their loved one’s wishes
- Support each other through this emotional journey
You Don’t Have to Face This Alone
With proper planning and support, we believe families can navigate even the most difficult transitions with dignity and grace. You don’t have to figure this out by yourself or worry about whether you’re doing everything right.
We’re here to guide you through each step, helping you feel confident and prepared during this sacred time.
Whether you need help planning ahead or support in the moment, we are here to help with compassion and expertise.
Ready to Learn More?
Schedule a free conversation with Nurse Peter to see how we can support you or someone you care about.
You don’t have to face this sacred time alone. We’re here to help.