
Guiding Life's Journey with Care

Guiding Life's Journey with Care
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The Hospice Journey Handbook: Your Complete Guide Through the Hospice Experience
Between Life and Death: A Gospel-Centered Guide to End-of-Life Medical Care
It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand
Bearing the Unbearable: Love, Loss, and the Heartbreaking Path of Grief
Everything Happens for a Reason: And Other Lies I’ve Loved
A Matter of Death and Life: Love, Loss and What Matters in the End
Death Is But a Dream: Finding Hope and Meaning at Life’s End
Final Gifts: Understanding the Special Awareness, Needs, and Communications of the Dying
How Do I Know You? Dementia at the End of Life
The Eleventh Hour: A Caring Guideline for the Hours to Minutes Before Death
By Your Side, A Guide for Caring for the Dying at Home
Living Well to Die Well – A Guide for Terminally Ill People and Their Loved Ones
On Death and Dying: What the Dying Have to Teach Doctors, Nurses, Clergy and Their Own Families
On Grief and Grieving: Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss
Finding Meaning: The Sixth Stage of Grief
It’s OK That You’re Not OK: Meeting Grief and Loss in a Culture That Doesn’t Understand
Compassion Crossing Academy — Free and paid online courses are available to teach caregivers, nurses, social workers, chaplains, end-of-life advocates, and educators, including death doulas, how to confidently coordinate complex care.
The Death Deck is often a wonderful conversation starter.
Bridges to Eternity: The Compassionate Death Doula Path book series:
- Becoming a Death Doula: A Complete Guide to Starting Your End-of-Life Doula Practice (Foundations and Practice, and Business Growth combined)
- Becoming a Death Doula: Foundations and Practice
- Becoming a Death Doula: Business Growth
- Death Doula Intake Guide: A Practical Framework for First Conversations, Safety Checks, and Forms
- Crucial End-of-Life Conversations: A Compassionate Guide for End-of-Life Professionals
- Value-Based Advance Care Planning: A Guide for Helping Professionals
- End-of-Life Doula Care Planning: A Complete Guide to Compassionate Care
- Crafting Meaningful Legacies: A Guide for End-of-Life Professionals
- Vigil Planning Guide: Creating Sacred Space in Life’s Final Chapter
- Carrying Loss Forward: Coaching Clients Through Grief and Integration
Find an End-of-Life Doula
- Compassion Crossing, LLC, via Peter M. Abraham, BSN, RN, EOLD, offers on-site services in Madison County, KY, as well as in the seven nearby counties—Clark, Estill, Fayette, Garrard, Jackson, Jessamine, and Rockcastle—and provides virtual options when no local provider is available.
- Hospice Buddy: Although Jamie Haberman, RN, CHPN, isn’t a certified end-of-life doula, her virtual services are highly valuable.
- The National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (NEDA) Directory
- Death Doula Directory
Currently, no official organization regulates end-of-life doulas (EOLDs). Remember that some EOLDs listed in directories may no longer be practicing, so it’s important to verify their current status.
End-of-Life Doula Schools
Before you consider a death doula school, please volunteer with a local hospice provider as a “companion volunteer” to gain experience with strangers who are dying, as well as with family and staff dynamics. The author also recommends reading the article Economic rant: The death doula crisis we aren’t talking enough about, as most death doula schools do not emphasize that being a death doula is a calling rather than a career.
The following are end-of-life (aka death doula) schools for those interested in becoming an end-of-life doula:
- University of Vermont. End-of-Life Doula School
- Heart Bridge Holistic Training and Mentorship
- National End-of-Life Doula Alliance (NEDA): While it’s not a school, it offers a certification pathway.
- Compassion Crossing Academy: Although it isn’t a dedicated death-doula school, it offers unique classes that can help death doulas expand their practice. It serves as an important resource for individuals looking to deepen their understanding and grow in this meaningful profession.
Remember that there is no official accrediting body for end-of-life doula programs. Certification simply shows you’ve completed an unaccredited course and received a certificate of completion. It’s advisable to have discovery sessions with any death doula school you’re considering — even if it isn’t listed here — to see if it meets your needs. Also, ask questions and reach out to references, such as former students, to assess whether the school provided a solid foundation for launching your own death doula practice.
Death Doula Alliances and Collectives
- Bay Area End-of-Life Doula Alliance
- Chicago Death Doula Collective
- Death Collective North Texas
- Florida End-of-Life Doula Alliance
- Midwest End-of-Life Doula Collective
- Minnesota Death Collaborative
- Philly Death Doula Collective
- Santa Fe Death Doula Cooperative
- Sarasota Area End-of-Life Doula Collective
- Virginia End of Life Doula Collective
Please note that some members listed in a specific collective or alliance might no longer be active.
- Beyond the Living Will: Creating Effective Advance Directives
- Daily Hospice Care Planner: Organize, Communicate, and Provide Consistent Care
- VSED From a Hospice Nurse Perspective: Voluntary Stopping Eating and Drinking, a Way to Choose
- Hospice Medication Handbook: A Caregiver’s Guide to Comfort Medications
- Nourishing Hope: A Caregiver’s Guide to End-of-Life Nutrition
- Palliative Care vs Hospice Care: Making Informed Decisions
- Palliative Sedation: A Compassionate Approach
- The Caregiver’s Lifeline: Self-Care in End-of-Life Care
- The Hospice Journey Handbook: Your Complete Guide Through the Hospice Experience
- Understanding Breathing at End-of-Life: A Family Guide to Comfort Care
- Understanding Your Rights in Hospice Care: A Guide for Patients and Families
- Validation and Compassion: A Guide to Connecting with Terminally Ill Loved Ones
- When is it Time for Hospice?: A Compassionate Guide for Families and Caregivers
Dementia Caregiver Essentials: Comprehensive Guide for Dementia Care (one book that contains the ten books below for less than one-third the price of all ten)
- Anger Management in Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials
- CPAP and Oxygen for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Diabetes Care for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Hallucination Management for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Infection Awareness in Dementia Care: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Medication Compliance for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Music Therapy for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Nutrition for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Placement for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Sundowning Management for Dementia: A Dementia Care Essentials Guide
- Dementia Staging Mastery: A Nurse’s Guide to Dementia Assessment
Gone from My Sight: The Dying Experience
Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End
One-to-One Hospice Nurse Coaching
Self-Paced Hospice Nurse Courses
Digital Downloads for Hospice Teams
The following are hospice-related digital products intended to aid benefit clinicians and agencies:
- Hospice Acuity Tool: Score, Track & Document Visits
- Hospice Nurse Toolkit
- Hospice Referral Toolkit for Facility Staff
- FY 2027 Hospice Coverage Compliance Toolkit
Empowering Excellence in Hospice: A Nurse’s Toolkit for Best Practices book series
- Art of Hospice Prognosis: Essential Skills for Clinical Assessment and Family Communication
- Beyond the Hospital: Navigating a Career in Hospice Nursing
- Breath of Life: Managing End-of-Life Respiratory Symptoms
- Care Plans for Hospice Patients: A Comprehensive Guide (updated for HOPE)
- Clinical Pathophysiology: A Reference for Hospice and Palliative Nurses
- Compliance-Based, Eligibility-Driven Hospice Documentation: Tips for Hospice Nurses
- Conversations at the End: Guiding Families Through Final Days
- HOPE in Practice: Implementing Patient-Centered Outcomes in Hospice Care
- HOPE in Action: A Practical Guide to Hospice Assessments
- HOPE Assessment Tool Updates & Version Tracking (free webpage that provides the latest CMS updates to HOPE)
- Hospice Clinical Pharmacology: Critical Thinking for Comfort-Centered Care
- Hospice Tools of the Trade: Essentials for Hospice Nurses
- Mastering Dementia Admissions: Essential Guidelines for Hospice Eligibility
- Mastering Hospice Eligibility: An Essential Guide for RNs and Clinical Managers
- Mastering Hospice Recertifications: A Comprehensive Guide for Nurses
- Mastering the Hospice Item Set: A Comprehensive Guide for Nurses and Managers
- Medication Reconciliation in Hospice Care: Maximizing Quality of Life (Updated to add the StopFrail method)
- The Art of Hospice Visit Planning: A Clinical Guide to Patient-Centered Care Frequency (updated for HOPE)
- The Complete Hospice Visit: A Nurse’s Guide to Excellence (updated for HOPE)
- The Hospice CoP Handbook: Meeting Federal Mandates from Admission to Audit
- Regulatory Updates to The Hospice CoP Handbook (free webpage that provides the latest conditions of participation updates)
- Time Management for Hospice Nurses: Practical Strategies for Rural Practice
- Whispers of Time: Understanding the End-of-Life Timeline
The best symptom management book the author has read: Notes on Symptom Control in Hospice & Palliative Care
Holistic Nurse: Skills for Excellence book series
- The Nurse’s Guide to Motivational Interviewing: Empowering Patients to Make Lasting Health Changes
- Trauma-Informed Care: Applications Throughout the Nursing Continuum
- Validation in Action: A Nurse’s Guide to Compassionate Communication
- Compassionate Care in Conflict: A Nurse’s Guide to Managing Combative Patients
- Dementia Staging Mastery: A Nurse’s Guide to Dementia Assessment
- Clinical CBT Applications: Essential Strategies for Modern Nursing Practice